She said all of that, and you are intelligent enough to have reading comprehension. As part of this commitment, the College undertakes to educate the student body about sexual harassment and assault. It was up to me to avoid him, she said. Which, I dont suppose I have any obligation to do, but its unfair to simply expect the school to just automatically presume the worst. From what I have read so far, there would be nothing but he said/she said. "Critical race theory (CRT) asserts that America's legal framework is inherently racist and that race itself, instead of being biologically grounded and natural, is a socially constructed concept that is used by white people to further their economic and political interests at the expense of people of color," explains Dr. Denise Donohue, the I understand the VP actually said Title IX prevented them from speaking out. They know they are not as upstanding as they would like. Ive seen way too many crises in my time, where people just went on acting as if nothing happened, not because they didnt care, but because its all they knew how to do and werent really able to fathom it, much less solve it. The school has a very thorough policy in place, and anyway, this was not in Christendoms jurisdiction, so their hands were legally tied in their dealings regarding the actual rape. All the fancy theology was useless for anything except further torturing myself for not being a good enough Catholic, not following the rules enough, and not being spiritual enough. You may think thats not what Simcha is actually advocating for, but her complaint comes across as about as realistic. No, it takes opening a word document and writing it up: Dont rape people. If theres a single member on your board who has an issue with that, they shouldnt be on that board, Smith said. 237: Creative naan compliance, Special Valentines FREE Episode: 20 things we hated about FIREPROOF, Protected: Podcast #65: Sometimes goat is just not GOAT. That is all. Heres my letter that i wrote to Christendom last month. Oops. Christendom offered a bulleted list of things they have done which were not reported on by the Fishers, implying that this is basically a smear campaign which is only willing to report on one side of the story. I am grateful to each woman who has come forward with her story. If she feels so strongly about it now and is willing to come out publicly and smear the College, bring him forward as well. Christendom is nearly unique among Catholic colleges and universities in that, because it accepts no federal funding, it is not subject to the legal constraints of Title IX. Its handling of the case may not have been malicious, but it was certainly pusillanimous. Not because they are animals, but because our culture is hyper-sexualized in a way that has been hitherto unseen. it was that, or sit in a brightly-lit classroom, with room for the Holy Spirit between you, and since its a public area, anybody might happen by and join you. But the stubborn Irish in me determined if I left, he would win. Click to share on Twitter (Opens in new window), Click to share on Facebook (Opens in new window), Click to email a link to a friend (Opens in new window), Click to share on Tumblr (Opens in new window), Click to share on Pinterest (Opens in new window), Click to share on LinkedIn (Opens in new window), Click to share on Reddit (Opens in new window). You can see it, you can feel it on the campusWhile some colleges in this Guide may match its Catholic commitment, it is unlikely that any exceeds it., Six months after graduation, the members of the Class of 2022 had an overall success rate of, based on a survey with a 100% knowledgerate. Judge William W. Sharp accepted the agreement and Luckeys guilty pleas. I hope you will also do an expose on colleges such as Notre Damethe wackadoodle attitudes I encountered there regarding women and sex would make your head spin. While I am not a Christendom graduate, I know many graduates. 2) The schools which do not have PDA rules, or whose rules are less strict still have rape. Not quoted or described? What if anyone found out? The Churchs teaching on this, particularly Pope John Paul II really upholds a woman in her own right and this was taught quite clearly at Christendom. Feminist =Baal worshipper. It may be that the whole thing wasnt handled as it should have been, but then, how should it have been handled? I think maybe it lies in the fact that, because interactions between the sexes are so tightly regulated, couples are far more likely to ensure they are completely out of sight of anyone else, thus providing more opportunities for those with less than pure intentions. Mr. Dorman showed no apparent interest in pursuing any sort of investigation, Scott Smith wrote. we could! She will do all she can to honor your requests and make your experience with Christendom College a pleasant and memorable one. Seite auswhlen. There are more than a few other academic institutions whose rates of rape and sexual assault are much higher and/or go under-reported. It is a call to be honest about their mistakes, so they can address them in a properly Christian manner. And I did end up seeing that friar once for counselling but he activated several gut feelings to stay away, and so I did. Please think twice next time before you do that. You are very brave. Men have the ability to take custody of their thoughts and control their actions regardless of any other circumstance. Click here to learn more. The policies the college had were precisely the ones that make sexual assault unlikely to occur on college grounds. Sexual assault by a Catholic homeschooler happened to a person very close to me just recently here in FR. She is very careful not to mention the perpetrators name without permission, but this courtesy given to the attacker is not given to any of the teachers and staff at the school. When I approached President ODonnel about it, I was stone-walled. Only as an adult did I see the dynamics of power, coercion, grooming and (lack of) consent at play, and even when I began to tell my story, many people brushed it off as in onsequential. Sin and error should be brought into the light so that Christ can heal them. Changed to a practical degree, learned about the real world. I used to ask my fiance when we were engaged, do you love me a la folie? Trying to live as a chaste couple before marriage, I was constantly struggling with worries over love and acceptancemany times after making out wildly with him but then walking away and saying goodnight. Smiths father consulted with a lawyer friend, who said that the best they could realistically hope for would be that the young mans record would include an accusation of rape. In all likelihood it would not have happened on campus because they would not have been alone together. Theyre usually published in any article Ive ever read regarding assault. After Adele did slap you, you allegedly said, If you slapped me really hard and it really hurt, I wouldnt want to kiss you. It is further alleged that on other occasions you went out of your way to volunteer with groups of friends that Adele had seduced you. Et cetera. If we want to read that sort of thing, well buy cheap romance novels. Honestly, that is all I hear for the first half of the article. She said she realized she could not stop the man. i was so unhappy my freshman year, couldnt understand why and decided i needed to study abroad in austria to fix myself. He told her her back might be more comfortable in the back seat, and they could put the laptop in the center console to listen to music. I am astounded that the article says rapist rather than alleged rapist. What in this story is inaccurate? The rape occurred on Friday, October 2, 2009, on Skyline Drive in Shenandoah National Park, about thirty minutes away from the college campus. To find out more about Student Achievement at Christendom, click here. If the intent here is to correct inaccuracies rather than, as it appears to be, an attempt to discredit Simcha as a journalist then it would be appropriate to say what exactly was misleading or inaccurate in the original post(s). What policy would you advocate? It took all of her strength not to drive off the mountain. Think of roofies, frat parties, binge drinking..Im not going to go on, except to say that these dont exist here and if thats the bubble then Hallelujah. I can understand the experience of being surrounded by 'unholy' people and being unable to come to grips with them being Not Catholic Enough, though. But I think what this often boils down to is he said vs she said. There are women who lie, even if they are a tiny minority. We will do better. Misogyny is woven deep into the schools culture. I know even as a young adult my guard was down, and I was vulnerable, as are so many others, especially when we have no reason not to be trusting. Smith and her brother stayed long after midnight talking, and Jenislawski told her he knew something had happened to her. A handbook that is not going to stop a rape. People will actually believe this ludicrous drivel. Omigosh. All rights reserved. You are very brave to speak up. Ive told him three times not to. Founded in 1977 in response to the devastating blow inflicted on Catholic higher education by the cultural revolution which swept across America in the 1960s, Christendoms goal is to provide a truly Catholic education in fidelity to the Magisterium of the Catholic Church and thereby to prepare students for their role as lay apostles to restore all things in Christ. Our culture promotes chivalry and kindness towards everyone at Christendom. This story was researched and reported by Damien and Simcha Fisher. In Adeles case it sounds like the college really did blow it by not giving credence to her rape charge, but did you *really* try to get their side of it before you published your hit piece here? Money should not stand in the way of your dreams, Those looking at Catholic colleges frequentlyask: How can I afford this education? Whenit comes to Christendom College, the realquestion families should be asking is: Howcan I afford not to attend Christendom?. The way I see it, and many may disagree with this, but the failure was not a moral failure, but an administerial one(if that). The entire town is PDA-rule-free. Their response was a poor excuse for an apology. You shooting in the dark hoping to hit a target, isnt helping. I didnt know about consent because, in my world, good Christian girls and boys were supposed to never have anything bad happen to them that was what happened to so-called sinful, unChristian people. What did happen on campus was punished. He further harassed her, had told several of his friends that she had seduced him. Why do we have to wait for the guy to respond? I am very sorry to hear of any sexual assault and it can happen in Front Royal. It seems to me that men who lure women into back seats of cars in secluded places would have an even easier time saying Hey, come up to my room to watch a movie. With the roommate being already asked to give them privacy. If not, then how is the school supposed to levy public punishments that would permittly alter this guys life if the woman would not go forward to authorities? There were witnesses there that confirmed that. I believe Adeles story 100%. The lack of process in place is about the same for most schools that size and design. Question: are the writers christendom 2020 and sophomore girl at Christendom the same girl/ writer? the letters read to indicate the same writer. Why not the new policy? The steps they have taken are a good beginning, but only that. So she drove them down the mountain and back to campus. The inaccuracies you mention are minor. i actually looked into going to Christendom College and got accepted. Im no longer Catholic, and I think the disillusionment I developed there is part of why or at least sped up the timeline of me leaving. We now offer both a men and womens monthly formation series that addresses mental health, healthy relationships, and other gender-specific topics. But when he started putting his hand inside her shirt, she told him No, and pushed his hand away. At that point, he does not see the difference between this no and that one. Im giving Simcha the benefit of the doubt and assuming she had good will in this reporting. This article sounds like Stephanie Meyer had a hay day, so if thats what you were going for, good job! It isnt Christendoms fault this happened they can only learn as fast as the culture encroaches..that young man should have kept his hands to himself period. 2,933 Followers. Why would the accusers parents ever, ever, ever send their daughter back to the place where she was abused and seemingly unhappy, uncomfortable and failing classes? No, it takes opening a word document and writing it up: Dont rape people. If theres a single member on your board who has an issue with that, they shouldnt be on that board, Smith said.. The teachers provide a well rounded education of philosophy, history, theology, literature and political science. And yet, with your ability to judge her soul, you dont know why That is mysterious indeed. He said / she said is a real thing and a difficult thing to manage. Experience the most popular, well-attended, and highly-ranked pre-college summer program of its kind. Smith and her family were floored. Protected: Pocast #18: Lets just do it and be legends! 239: Spot the fiendish thingy, Whats for supper, vol. Vol. It sounds from the way the witnesses say he behaved that this guy probably is a sociopath and I believe probably did rape her. Rights to a speedy trial. Describe the current environment at the school with phrases like, But current students and alumni say the school has a boys will be boys attitude which allows the male students to harass and grab at the women. Even if you have no evidence that men can grab at women without repercussions, that doesnt matter. This has been mine. Never mind the mental health agony I endured in thinking I had brought on myself same-sex erotic involvement. Grad school was a very supportive environment for me in a number of ways. Accountability, yes, definitely. higher education Discover more about Christendom College Others Named Mark Fusco Mark Fusco Account Executive at Black Kite Mark Fusco Now though, I can confidently say I turned it around. Youve been completely infected by the porn saturated culture we live in. Our countrys policies right now generally say yes for potential terrorists, but no for potential rapists. Contact Leslie Mathews by email at lmathews@christendom.edu or by phone by calling 540.551.9300. That is exactly what you are saying, men cant control themselves so woman have to. is buddy allen married. Simcha you must not be very up on your news, because from what I have been reading in the news of the secular world, it seems that these types of crimes sometimes take twenty years to detangle.Why mention Title IX?? When the schools response is to prevent the rapist from living on campus for a semester, and a professor welcomes him into his home while smearing the student who was raped in class, without serious consequences, its fair to criticize the school. Karl Petrick Assistant Director of Advancement Services Her point is that they did not do their best. Episode #60: Who or what is a Malcolm Gladwell? I can tell you as someone whos had to deal with rape incidents associated with schools hes worked for, that Christendom is not a school that gives off a dangerous vibe. Are women safe in Christendoms bubble? Thank you! That comment So goes the other way. Come on. This whole story made me so sad, especially reading it as a Christendom graduate and now mother who is raising sons and daughters in this confused and fallen world. By driving students off campus, the school is making the students, especially women, more vulnerable. The idea of being torn apart in court by someone with a law degree, and it being in the paper, was too much for me to imagine. I have to wonder why people entrust a liberal arts school board to be able to fairly assess rape allegations, when law enforcement werent able to.. The whole In loco parentis thing was alive and well and enforced. Men and women BOTH have free will. Which means, of course, he may very well have done it again. In one way, Im glad I have this information. 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But yeah, there was definitely navet in spades. In 2015, Christendom was left off of President Barack Obama's College Scorecard, which was created to help high school graduates pick schools. So this rape would not have occurred if the dorms were mixed gender? Recipe for a Hit Piece Christendom College is one of the best liberal arts colleges in America. Its not about gender expectations as much as it is about power and CONSENT, period, from anyone to anyone. And your describing it as such in the comments on a piece about rape is insulting and denigrating. Curious. There was nothing to stop this from happening again, Smith said. I sympathize with the people who want a man to be expelled based on one womans testimony (such as in the above article), but we have to admit that is at the expense of innocent men getting expelled as well. They re-wrote the handbook over the summer? People were mostly really nice, and there was this kind of lovely cocoon of ideological sameness that I'd never experienced before. The student handbook now includes a sexual assault policy. She did go to the police. Fedoryka, through his contacts in the Vatican, brought the college into contact with then-Pope John Paul II, who later told Carroll that Christendom "was doing a great work for the Church. Would you like to explain, please, what you mean by inaccuracies? It would be difficult for Christendom to have a fuller Catholic identity. She describes the open houses that would take place in the dorms once a semester. Of course they are not but I find the fact that each version of catholic thinks they are right well it is partly why I lost my faith. As a graduate of Christendom, I see no reason why he couldnt have been expelled. i am beginning to wonder if it really exists or is just a figment of a perverted imagination. Please teach your children that no always means NO so they will not be victims or predators. Imply that what they did was nothing. It is not uncommon, either. Podcast #57: And then the internet took off. Each day she is persuaded that the college has no intention of supporting her. So places without rda rules have less rape? To think that anyone could do that to such a young child is eye-opening indeed, and helpful to know for those of us raising kids to know what to beware of. . They had to drive. I cant stop him, apparently, she recalled thinking. I also disagree with your assessment that author doesnt have a clear stance on whether the student should have been expelled. This sounds like a solution I would expect from a small school, where something major is placed on them. When she told a few of her friends that something had happened between them, he began circulating the story that she had seduced him and then regretted it. Were charged ever filed? However, if you combine Christendom, Seton Home Study, and the many Christendom grads who have settled around town, its a sizable bloc if they actually all agreed that something should be done. Its hard to explain why my GPA is so poor.. Protected: Podcast 51: the Grift of the Magi, Protected: Podcast #50: The Five Stages of Revenge, Podcast 49: Not trying to hurry you (FREE PODCAST! The last thing Christendom needs is a kangaroo court that believes everything that comes out of accusers mouths. Please read above reply concerning accountability. The other allegations against him were also by hearsay, and they put those allegations in writing and asked him to defend himself. Feb 5, 2018 / 15:45 pm. There was no mention of her accusation of rape, either in the charge letter or in the sanction letter. While this student should have somehow received better care, and more protection from this guy later, and while her story is heartrending, it should not be published in an article whose objective is obviously to smear the college and all the good for which it stands. I appreciate your thoughtful comments. Its something I can share with bubble parents. What drives couples off campus is the desire to do things that are prohibited on campus; things which the college prohibits precisely because they can lead people to tempt themselves and each other. I've got. We Dare to be Great. In 2010, after the church sex abuse scandal, the air force academy sexual assault scandal, among others, its horrendously negligent not to have these policies. My criticism of this article is blaming Christendom for not doing the same thing this article can not; openly accuse the man in question of rape. Statute of limitations on many crimes, among others. Hardly anyone went down there for any good reason; it was the closest thing to a crypt. He sat beside her and began to make small talk, putting his hand on her leg. Your article doesnt make sense . There is a french expression a la folie; when you love someone a la folie, it means you love them to the point of madness. I remember at one point breaking into tears talking to someone because I missed the DHS so much. Simchas piece was very specific. One professor was quite emphatic than women are less rational, and when I got upset about that well, naturally he put that down to my lack of rationality, plus perhaps a dash of pride. That wasnt their gig. hanging alongside her brown scapula. The young woman went to the police, and due to the lack of evidence, they could not press charges.